my boyfriend wasnt my boyfriend but just a fried and he had a girlfriend and me and the girlfriend got kidnapped and he didnt want to save me just her
Dreams about being kidnapped usually signify that you feel emotionally trapped or controlled in some way in real life. In this dream, the fact that your boyfriend was not your boyfriend but just a friend could suggest that you are feeling disconnected from him emotionally or that you feel he is not as emotionally invested in the relationship as you are.
The fact that he had a girlfriend in the dream might suggest that you feel insecure or jealous about another woman in his life. The fact that he didn't want to save you but only her could suggest that you feel like he is prioritizing her over you, or that you feel like he would not come to your rescue in a time of need.
Overall, this dream could be a reflection of your fears or anxieties about the current state of your relationship. It could be a sign that you need to address these feelings with your partner in order to improve the relationship and ease your anxieties.